Disclaimer

Mileage may vary!

Oh....wrong disclaimer.

Okay, here's the deal. Hubby and I didn't start our blogs to encourage or glamourize our lifestyle. I'm not egotistical enough to think that someone will come here, read my blog and successfully convince his or her spouse to start getting busy with other people.

BUT.....

I'd be remiss if I didn't state that this isn't an easy lifestyle. It's fun. It's exciting. It's satisfying. It's wonderful. But only if done right.

And doing it right has many requirements and conditions.

For one, you both have to be in agreement. And no coercion can be involved. You both have to want this. If one does it to please the other, disaster awaits. We've seen it many times with too many couples to count. Some marriages survivied, but many didn't.

Can you handle seeing your beloved wrapped around another? Can you handle that person cumming with another? Making another cum? Kissing them? Yeah, it sounds hot--but reality and fantasy are not the same thing. Reality is much harder to handle.

Also, there are many safety concerns.

Yeah, it's easy to go out and pick up someone and fuck them. Hubby's done it and I've done it on occasion with women, but I don't advise doing it. We're pros and know what signs to look for before proceeding with the person. There are far too many whack jobs out there.

Health concerns must be factored in. We were lucky in that we never contracted any STDs. Condoms are great, but not perfect. And I'm not just talking about AIDS. There's gonorrhea, hepatitis, the clap, clamidia, and a host of little nasties out there.

So don't just go out and leap into this. It's not for everyone. Trust me on this.